Wednesday, June 2, 2010

The Last Post


I didn't think it would be so difficult to make such a decision but this will be my last Book Psmith post. I decided at the beginning of 2010 to keep a personal journal of my reading, and although I have been doing a monthly review, I find that I lack a certain motivation to write about my reading twice. However I cannot give up reading and commenting on my favorite book blogs...there are just too many delicious authors and books I get to know through them...nor do I want to give up the wonderful bloggy friends I have made over the past year and a half...is this considered selfish blogging etiquette? Regarding the challenges I joined for 2010, I will still be working on them, and the You've Got Mail challenge I am hosting will carry on.

On to May's reading...for some reason I felt I had read tons but it turns out only finished seven books beginning with The Children Who Lived in a Barn read for Persephone week and written about here. My copy of Dorothy Canfield Fisher's The Home-maker didn't arrive in time for Persephone week but I began reading it the day it came and found myself wishing for one of those long weekends from my childhood where I looked forward to doing nothing more than settling on my grandparent's couch with a good book and no interruptions. As it was, I stole pages here and there and read a paragraph or two whenever I could. The Home-maker lived up to all the things I had read about it but I had a curious reaction to the story during the days that followed my finishing it...I began to despise it...not the characters and their actions but the story itself. It was a very strange experience and one I am still trying to figure out.

I read two books by Barbara Pym, Some Tame Gazelle and Jane and Prudence, both of which I loved but for very different reasons. Some Tame Gazelle is a book I wished I had read in the dead of winter because there was a certain level of coziness to be found in the sisters' home and their relationship that it would have been ideal reading it next to a fire with a blanket thrown over and a hot cup of cocoa (or Ovaltine) to sip. I have to admit that I didn't understand the tenacity of Belinda's feelings for the Archdeacon over so many decades nor Harriet's obsession with curates but I didn't have to in order to love their character and idiosyncracies. As for Jane and Prudence, I felt that I understood Jane a little too well for the fact that I could identify with her inability to say and do the right things in any role she had chosen for herself. Then I also could identify with Prudence and the way in which she reveled in her romantic drama. Prudence was a reminder of my foolishness in youth and Jane in my negotiating the path of being 'grown up'. Plus the book was downright funny.

I was slightly disappointed in Sir Arthur Conan Doyle's The Sign of Four which didn't have the same suspense factor as his other works I have read. Nor did it seem very clever. But I am glad I read it just for witnessing the further character development of Holmes and Watson. Sad to say but I was also disappointed in Miss Read's Village Affairs...and it does make me sad to say that because I have loved everything I have read by her so far but I hesitate to say it was the fault of Miss Read because I kept feeling a level of pettiness as I read this installment in the Fairacre series. Minnie Pringle grated on my last nerve and I wasn't convinced by the drama that surrounded the possible closing of Fairacre school (perhaps because a quick glance at the rest of the Fairacre titles on my shelf gave the whole thing away). But I did appreciate Mrs. Pringle's frustration with her reducing diet. To paraphrase her argument which I whole-heartedly commiserate with...they aren't fattening foods, they are sustaining foods.

To match the strange experience I had with The Home-maker, I read Angela Thirkell's first Barsetshire novel, High Rising, in the beautifully published but badly edited edition by Moyer Bell. This is a fantastic read that I found irreverant in its commentary on motherhood and perfectly entertaining on every level. Simply put it was a blast to read. But once finished I felt no compulsion to continue the series which I am guessing has to do with the fact that I really felt no emotional connection to any of the characters. I already had the second book, The Demon in the House, on its way to my home but for now it will be shelved just in case sometime down the line I feel an urge to pick it up.

Two books I started but didn't finish were Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier and A Far Cry from Kensington by Muriel Spark. Within the first couple of pages, I just couldn't get into Rebecca but have set aside to try again come this October. I can't completely give up on it because I really liked her short story, Don't Look Now, and because so many people recommend it. I got to about page 75 in A Far Cry from Kensington and then shut the thing in a huff. The story started in one place, which I was really enjoying (I mean how great is the scene where Mrs. Hawkins states to Hector Bartlett how she really feels about him and then to find the story behind the story of this character) and then veer off to another centering around a Box just didn't mesh for me. I skipped ahead to read the last few pages which reinforced my decision not to finish.
Currently I am inhabiting that detested state of not reading as I wait for Elizabeth Taylor's Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont...no other book will do at the moment:)

Thank you to everyone who has stopped by to read and comment, and extra big thank yous to all the bloggers who have influenced, and will continue to influence, my reading in immeasurable ways.

19 comments:

Darlene said...

Oh Book Psmith, it was lovely while it lasted and what a relief you will still be close by! With gardening season back I know only too well the pull in so many directions with not enough hours in the day. I'm so glad that we've all found each other, to share the wonderful stories we love and to inspire our reading minds to grow further.

Enjoy your family and your summer...I'll keep in touch!

Carrie said...

*sniff*

And yet, I understand. I'm kinda shifting a few things around to prioritize a little better myself! Life goes on off the bloggy scene and it's important to find the balance in it all.

Best!
Carrie

Kim said...

I just recently found your blog and have enjoyed it immensely. All the best to you.

Rochester Reader said...

Dear Book Psmith!
I had a feeling that something sad was on the horizon... I felt compelled to visit your blog today, after not following blogs or blogging for a month after my dear Dad's passing.
I will really miss your posts and that cheery cow creamer :-) I totally understand your reason for not blogging anymore but I hope to see your comments on other blogs. I don't know yet when mine will continue, but if it does, I hope to see you there too.
I am currently reading the first Blandings novel and thoroughly enjoying it. Thanks to you, I have persevered with Wodehouse and gone on to read my third. The prose and word play in this novel is highly entertaining and I am beginning to see the attraction. I am already planning more Wodehousian pursuits and I find his writing particularly comforting (along with 'Mapp and Lucia') during these sad and stressful times.
I absolutely understand your yearning for one particular book to read at a certain time. It can't arrive soon enough... such anticipation!
All the best to you and I hope that Mrs Palfrey will not disappoint (I have only seen the excellent film - although I am a fan of Elizabeth Taylor's writing)and that you will find rewarding reads again very soon. Take care until I see you again on another blog.
Best wishes,
Cristina.

Rachel (Book Snob) said...

Oh Stacey. I'm really sad you won't be blogging anymore! I have really enjoyed your posts and I will miss them. I'm glad you're staying on with the You've Got Mail challenge though.
Ultimately blogging should be a fun stress free hobby and if it becomes a stressful obligation then it's a tough but wise decision to stop. I admire you for that! Good luck with everything you're doing and I hope you will pop up around the blogosphere often.

Lisa said...

I'll miss reading your reviews but completely understand your decision. There is only so much time in the day and somewhere something just has to give. I'll still see you over at the You've Got Mail Challenge!

Amused said...

I am so sorry to see you leave the blogging world but you have to do what's right for you! You were one of the first bloggers to make me feel really welcome so I will definitely miss you. Best of luck.

skirmishofwit said...

Oh, I'm so sad this is your last post! I've enjoyed your blog so much. I can understand that a blog can become too time consuming though. Enjoy all the lovely reads ahead of you!

Book Psmith said...

Darlene - Thank you, Darlene:) I feel the same way...I knew the moment I stumbled onto roses over a cottage door that you would be wonderful to know and I am so grateful for the friendship that has blossomed.

Carrie aka the one who got me to read Anne:) Thanks for being so welcoming to me from the start...brought together by Wodehouse. And you are so right about Tumtum and Nutmeg...the whole family is read it together from ages 36 to 14 to 4!

Kim - Thank you for leaving a comment...I immediately went to your blog and it is so beautiful. I look forward to hearing about your trip to England. I am glad I got to know about your blog before signing off. Safe travels:)

Rochester Reader - I will definitely be around and you know that if you choose to continue blogging I will be following along. You have been in my thoughts and I am heartened to know you have been able to find comfort here and there. I so treasure the thoughtful gifts you sent to me (I was tearing apart our pantry the other day in search of the pen, only to find my daughter using it because "I like it so much":) Don't you just love visiting Blandings? Mrs. Palfrey should arrive today and I will be sure to check out the film as well.

Rachel - You've Got Mail must carry on...we have yet to arrive to the month of 'bouquets of freshly sharpened pencils':) Thank you for your kind words and I will definitely still be around...I refuse to give up reading book blogs.

Lisa - Thank you...and yes we will continue to meet at YGM...I plan to use this summer to make some progress on my own challenge:) See you there.

Amused - It has been so much fun to watch your blog grow...it really is quite awesome...best wishes and I will still drop by:)

skirmishofwit - I have enjoyed getting to know you and your mum through your lovely blogs and can't wait to see where your adventures continue to take you:) Best wishes!

Viooltje (Violet) said...

(((HUGG)))
I understand but...
(etc. etc.)


I'm very gratefull Mr.B. helps me, otherwise I couldn't write a single bookblogpost due to my time consuming cross stitching obsesion.
*Ü*

Mr.B. and I wrote a few YGMRC-ish blogposts (without giving notice *Ü*)... we only didn't visit many other blogs in the past months...
Time flies (to fast).
We'll hope to meet you again in "the YGMRC-haedquarters".

JoAnn said...

Oh, I had a feeling this was coming... and I completely understand and respect your decision, but will still miss you very much! It's been wonderful to get to know you and a comfort to hear that you're not going to completely disappear.

What an interesting response to The Home-Maker! It's sad that societal norms put the characters into that situation... my heart ached for the entire family. Would love to hear any further thoughts.

Enjoy your new hobbies, time with family, and the summer... I'll keep in touch, too :-)

Paperback Reader said...

Stacy, I'm sorry to read it but completely understand. I am relieved that you will still be there reading and commenting on your favourite blogs, any capacity is better than none. I would also love if you would still participate in the next Persephone Secret Santa? It wouldn't be the same without you, as it is your baby.

Please persevere with Spark; I wasn't particularly enamoured by A Far Cry From Kensington either and it remains my least favourite of her books.

Happy reading! How I still crave those carefree weekends from childhood where I looked forward to being completely immersed in a book too.

dolcebellezza said...

I see you drop out of the blogging bit, as well as Claire of Kiss a Cloud, and I must say I'm tempted to do the same. When something becomes a job more than a joy, it's time to reconsider. I did love the chats we had, especially this Winter, and I hope you'll be able to keep in touch from to time. In many ways I envy your newly claimed freedom.

Book Psmith said...

Viooltje - If you get a chance, please do stop by YGM to leave links. In the meantime, I'll stop by to see what you have been reading. For a while I thought of teaming up with my daughter because she has a blog too but she hasn't had much time to post either:) Thank you for your kind words and drop by YGM headquarters anytime.

JoAnn - Thank you, JoAnn...we will definitely keep in touch and I will continue to stop by the lake to see what you are reading and what you and your daughter are doing in the kitchen. When I start thinking about The Home-maker, I do try to focus on how the whole family was transformed for the good...it is something to rejoice in. I will still be around but I still want to say thank you for making me feel so welcome when I first started blogging.

Paperback Reader - I think at some point I will try Spark again especially knowing that you had a similar experience with Far Cry. If you would like to host the next Persephone Secret Santa, I would definitely participate (as well as any other Persephone event you and Verity host...I'll be there). I will still be around but I will still say thank you for your friendship and helpful advice.

dolcebellezza - I will definitely keep in touch as I keep updated on your posts. I am so glad I got to know you through the Persephone exchange. It took a couple of months to come to my decision and although I did feel a sense of relief, it was quickly replaced by a sadness knowing I won't have the same level of give and take with all the blog friends I have made. But I know it was the right decision and I will do my best to maintain my relationships with all of you:)

Anna said...

I'm so sorry to hear this but you have to do what's right for you. Wishing you all the best!

--Anna
Diary of an Eccentric

Nan said...

Oh, Stacey, I don't know what to say. It's like someone moving out of town - we can still be in touch but it will be different. I just hope nothing is really wrong. Maybe if you don't have to put the time into writing (and I do know how much time and thought it takes!), you'll have more time to stop and visit everyone?? I've felt for a while that this might be coming. I'll miss your writing on books; yours is a special voice.

Penny said...

I'm sorry you're not going to be blogging any more for purely selfish reasons: I've just found your blog and was delighted to see we have VERY sinmilar tastes in books!
I have a blog, too (not a book one) and find that life can certainly get in the way of blogging. I've gone over a month between blog posts recently... I hope at some point you'll find you can continue to do a bit of blogging as I'd love to read more about what you're reading!

Book Psmith said...

Anna - Thank you:) And all the best reading to you and the girl as I will conintue to drop in and follow your literary adventures.

Nan - Thank you for all you said and for making me feel I had found a kindred spirit when it comes to reading. I know what you mean by it being different but I do believe that now I will have more time to visit other blogs and comment (and keep these things straight:).

Penny - Thank you for dropping a note...this is one of the ways I get to find new blogs and I had a chance to stop by yours and it is so beautiful with all the colorful photographs. I have added you to my reader and look forward to reading it. So I may not be blogging anymore but I will stop by and say hello:)

Bellezza said...

Stacey, I love how you're still leaving comments on my blog. Thanks for that! I'd love to stay in touch, and, maybe you'll rethink your decision. (If it works for you. ;)